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PRIVATE
COACHING
 + MENTORSHIP

For those ready for their erotic revival.

In life, love, creativity, and sex.

 

This is a deep dive into your body, your desire, your emotional life, and your soul.

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This is for the woman who wants to feel more.

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More turned on. More alive. More connected to her body. More emotionally open. More orgasmic. More able to feel her own desire moving through her life.

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Maybe you used to feel electric and you want her back.

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Or maybe, if you’re really honest, you don’t know if you’ve ever felt fully connected to your sexuality at all.

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Maybe you’ve never really felt the connection between your pussy and your heart. Maybe pleasure and orgasm have felt elusive, mechanical, inconsistent, or like something you should know how to access but somehow don’t.

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Maybe you can take care of everyone else, build a career, run a household, be a mother, a partner, a leader—but when someone asks you what you want, what turns you on, what your body is asking for, you go a little blank.

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Maybe there is a whole erotic part of you that you can sense is there, but you haven’t figured out how to reach her yet.

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This work is for her, too.

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Because I don’t believe sexuality is something separate from the rest of who we are.

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Our sexuality touches our emotional life. Our creativity. Our capacity to receive. Our relationships. Our shame. Our histories. Our bodies. Our ability to feel pleasure. Our connection to something sacred.

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And sometimes, when one part of us goes numb, a lot of us goes numb.

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Or maybe you remember exactly what it felt like...

 

You used to feel electric.

 

And it’s been awhile, maybe longer than you’d like to admit, since you felt that deeply erotic current of life running through you—and no matter how many self-help books, tantric workshops, and free meditations you’ve done online to try and feel that sexy spark again, something in you still just feels… flat.

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Maybe you’re in the thick of early parenthood and can’t remember the last time you had a moment to yourself—let alone felt sexy.

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Maybe you’re in your hustle years, building your career, and have been leading from that place of structure, responsibility, and getting shit done, and can’t remember the last time you really let go—even on your days off.

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Or maybe a few years of doomscrolling, keeping up with life, the news, social media, bills, relationships, and everything everyone needs from you have caught up to you.

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And it’s been awhile since you felt like you were in the driver’s seat of your own life, pursuing your dreams and desires despite what’s happening in the world around you.

 

But somewhere inside, you remember YOU.

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The person who felt alive in your body. Who knew what you wanted. Who moved through the world with a certain fire.

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And then life happened.

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And somewhere in there you lost your desire—for sex, for your own life, maybe even for yourself.

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Here is where we bring you back.

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The work:

 

My 1:1 Private Coaching + Mentorship work is a body, desire, emotional, and soul process.

We are not simply talking about your sexuality.

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We are learning how to inhabit it.

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How to feel your body again. How to hear what it wants. How to work with shame rather than organize your life around it. How to expand your capacity for pleasure and emotional feeling. How to discover what actually turns you on. How to speak desires you may have never said out loud.

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And how to let all of that inform the way you live.

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My method includes:​​

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Erotic Unblocking

We look at the shame, conditioning, fear, and old stories that may be keeping your sexuality and desires stuck. We begin loosening what has kept you disconnected, so there is more room for pleasure, desire, and erotic energy to move.

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Body + Pleasure Reconnection

For the woman who has never felt deeply connected to her genitals, pleasure, or orgasm, we start where you actually are. We build a relationship with your body from the inside out—learning its language, noticing sensation, exploring pleasure, and creating more capacity to receive and feel without forcing an outcome.

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Emotional Expression

We build your capacity to actually feel—grief, anger, longing, joy, tenderness—because I don’t believe we can selectively numb ourselves and expect pleasure to remain untouched. We make more room for all of you to be felt.

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Desire Mapping

We get specific about what you actually want—in your life, career, family, dreams, relationships, and sex. We explore what turns you on, what you’re hungry for, what you have never said out loud, and the desires you may not have given yourself permission to have yet.

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Role Play & Creative Assignments

This work doesn’t stop when our session ends. We use embodied practices, role play, experiments, and creative assignments in your actual life. Little by little, wanting what you want stops being an idea and starts becoming how you live.

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Shamanic Clearing & Soul Journey Work

We look at ancestral patterns, inherited fear, energetic patterns, and agreements that may not feel like yours to carry anymore. This is where the work moves beyond the purely psychological and into the realm of soul.

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This is not about becoming "more sexual."

 

It is about becoming more you.

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You do not need to perform sexuality. You do not need to become louder, wilder, kinkier, or anything else that isn't authentic to you.

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This is about being able to inhabit your erotic self without shame.

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To feel your body.

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To know what turns you on.

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To experience more pleasure.

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To deepen your capacity for orgasm.

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To feel your emotions without drowning in them.

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To know what you desire and trust yourself enough to follow it.

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To experience your sexuality not as something separate from your healing or spiritual life, but as another doorway into knowing yourself.​​

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1:1 Private Coaching with me is the most intimate container. We go deep, we go fast, and we go exactly where you need to go. You choose between a single Erotic Breakthrough Session, a 3 or 6 month Erotic Transformational Container, or an Erotic In-Person Immersion (all the details below). We choose a CLEAR INTENTION and focus for our work which we revisit monthly and hold throughout each session. If you need help finding this intention, we can do that together.

 

 

This is for you if...​

  • You're tired of feeling like a mom, a partner, a professional — and not a woman.

  • You know you've been hiding your sensuality and you're done with it.

  • You're ready to get honest about where you've been playing small.

  • You want to feel deeply sexy, wildly alive, and spiritually awake — all at the same time.

  • You're done waiting to feel like yourself again.

  • You want the transformation to be real — not just a mood shift, but a genuine reorganization of how you live, love, and move through the world.

  • You're ready to be deeply sexy, wildly alive, and spiritually awake. All of it. At the same time.

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I am here to support you as you listen to the call within, beckoning you to expand, transform, and claim your life deeply, live as love fully, and express your heart in love, sex, relationship and beyond.


“I am not the same. My whole life has CHANGED. This is neither a metaphor, nor hyperbole. Doing this beautiful love work with Alexandra is 1000% a credit to the way that my life has shifted. From my relationships, to my career, to my finances, to my perspective – everything has changed and I am so deeply grateful for this unfolding of what I know about myself and WHO I GET TO BE.”

- EBONYJANICE, AUTHOR OF ALL THE BLACK GIRLS ARE ACTIVISTS
CLIENT FROM AUG 2020 TO JAN 2022

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PRAISE FOR ALEXANDRA:

"Alexandra has taught me how to get out of my head and how to drop back in to my body and really feel my feelings. I’ve come out of the journey a woman transformed with
my heart cracked completely open. I’m living deeper and more alive and more engaged than ever before."

- LAURA MCCAFFREY

PACKAGE OPTIONS

THREE WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER:

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1: EROTIC BREAKTHROUGH SESSION

90-minutes via Zoom

Investment: $425

 

2: EROTIC TRANSFORMATION CONTAINER

I offer 3 or 6 month containers for ongoing erotic transformational work.

 

This container includes:

  • 3, 60-min sessions via Zoom per month.

  • Voice note communication and support Mon - Thurs 9-5pm mt.

  • Kajabi portal where you can access pre-recorded at-home practices for in between our sessions.

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6 month containers include:

  • All of the above +

  • If you pay in full for 6 months, you'll also receive a 1-day in-person immersion with me in Boulder, CO.

  • Or pay monthly over 6 months and receive a half-day in-person immersion in Boulder, CO.

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Investment: $2k per month for 3 and 6 month containers

 

Option 3: EROTIC IN-PERSON IMMERSION

A 2-day in-person immersion with me in Boulder, CO where I design a 2-day retreat for you, or you and a partner, based on the intentions we'll discuss together upon application and booking.

Investment: $5k total 

 

Please apply here.​

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Sitting in sacred council with Alexandra changed so many aspects of how I love and respect myself. I worked with Alexandra 1:1 for 6 months and was all in on every energetic level. She met me there with grace and expansive heart energy that allowed me to make the most difficult changes of my entire life.

Her wisdom and connection to the creative process manifested with transformative power in my embodiment practice and new behavioral sets in my life. I now deeply value and lead with the love of my creativity, femininity, body wisdom and powerful voice. 

This work came at the most sacred time in my life, processing deep levels of grief giving way to a soulful version of self that feels restored and Free to be Me.  Thank you for this time, your practice and commitment to these intensely transformative spaces. 

- Sue Hunt, Author of Transitory Nature

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PRAISE FOR ALEXANDRA:

“....I have worked with Alexandra online and in person on retreats for over 8 years now and it’s hard to put into words the impact it has had on my life. It’s such deep work that it lives in my heart, bones and soul. I’m so glad I gifted myself this experience in Zion, one of the most beautiful places I have been to. I am forever grateful for Alexandra’s sacred, creative and powerful teaching. Alexandra is a potent community weaver. I felt incredibly safe and free to explore all sides of myself with Alexandra’s direction and the group of women who attended. 
 
As a woman working in the creative healing arts, the immersion helped conjure the wild and expressed artist inside me that I have lost over the years. From the cave practices, embodiment, sensual movement, river dip, connecting with other women, writing practices, sunset hike, gorgeous meals and sacred theatre,
I left completely nourished.“

- CHELSEA 

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"My time working with Alexandra has brought shifts in myself and my life that are unlike no other. I’ve deepened my ability to connect with self (pain, shadow sides) in turn connecting more authentically with others. She provides the space for my listening of self to expand; to dance with all the parts of me. I get to be me. The me that loves, hurts, rages & surrenders. The me that wants to connect with others in the deepest way possible."

- JEN ROBINSON

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BACKGROUND + APPROACH

 
I have received specialized training in:
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  • Transformational Coaching 
  • Embodiment
  • ​​Internal Family Systems
  • Depth Psychology 
  • Ritual
  • Shamanic Journey 
  • Sensual Movement  
  • Sacred Intimacy
  • Astrology
  • Reiki  
 
Select Certificates, Relevant Mentorships + Trainings:
 
Currently enrolled in Naropa Master's Transpersonal Psychology program.
 
2024 Pacifica Graduate Institute, certification and training in Somatics and Depth Psychology
 
2022 certification via Pacifica Graduate in memoir and archetypal writing
 
2023-2024 current training in Internal Family Systems- IFS informed.
 
9 month embodiment and intimacy training, 2022, John Wineland. 
 
Sensual movement teaching training via Sensually Embodied with Ali Kole and Jen Bell.
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Shamanic training with Betsy Bergstrom and Erin Love.
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Reiki masters with Lisa Levine.
 
NYU's Tisch School of the Arts, BFA, Applied theatre, study in healing writing, storytelling, creative healing arts, embodiment, voice.
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3,000+ hours working with clients between 2016-2026.
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“In my 1-1 work with Alexandra, we worked through some major blocks
I felt stood between me and the life I’m called to live. I had some long term goals going into our work together, think a 12-18 month timeframe, but she said in one of our first sessions that I can do those things in 3-6 months. I didn’t believe that was possib
le, but by the time we were done working together after three months, I had already made great strides to reaching those goals in the timeframe she had proclaimed. Pure magic! She has a
unique ability to see and feel what you need during a session, often it would end up being something I didn’t even realize I needed. She challenged me to go deep, to really feel, in order to move through my issues, blockages and limiting beliefs, and never settled for anything less than the deepest work and the biggest expressions. I came away from our work together with a new enthusiasm for my life, practices to help me unblock myself, and tools that I can use to create the career I want."

- KAREN KIELY

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