My book F*CK LIKE A GODDESS is out now!

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#1 Bestseller in 3 Amazon categories for 4 weeks. Featured in In Style Magazine, Pop Sugar, Refinery 29. Called by Publisher’s Weekly a “sharp forceful debut.” Touted as one of Bustle’s “Best summer reads!”

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“Stay to get in touch with the divine feminine within…” – New York Times

I’m Alexandra, a bestselling author, multi-disciplinary artist, and spiritual coach specializing in transformation and the magical intersection of spirituality and sensuality and healing. I teach an embodied approach to the spiritual path, intimacy, healing, and transformation. I’ve taught and coached thousands of people around the world to have better intimacy, passion, and connection to self and life. I’ve made art across mediums about my spiritual journey for decades from an award winning feature film Mary Marie to an acclaimed web show Be Here Nowish to recently a bestselling book!

My radical guidebook F*ck Like a Goddess is out now with Sounds True and it’s packed with stories and exercises, rituals, and tales. I’ve worked with thousands of people in my sessions, classes, retreats, and workshops to support them on their embodied radical spiritual path.

I’ve been blessed to be featured in InStyle Magazine, The New York Times, Vanity Fair, Pop Sugar, Refinery 29, Bustle, and Girl Boss for my unique approach. Read press articles about my work here.  

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Get ready to open your heart, body, and mind with my stories and techniques for healing and breaking through to the life you want.



I speak on TV, lead workshops internationally, and give keynotes.  Hire me to speak on various topics include modern conscious dating in the digital age, conscious sex, sexual healing and more.


What if your deepest fears and wounds were the KEY to living a turned on, passionate life, sharing your gifts with the world, and having mind-blowing love along the way?

And what if you could embrace all of you―all of your messy, wild, raw, sensual self―exactly as you are right now AND still feel good? This is what it means to f*ck like a goddess―literally and metaphorically. To let life make love to you and enjoy every bit, even the parts that hurt, and to find the magic in all of it. And this is your birthright.

The methods in this book will inspire you, challenge you, bring up your resistance, and unleash your gifts. It won’t always be easy, but if you do the work, you’ll discover what it really feels like to f*ck like a goddess.

Get a free chapter of my book here!

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“The new New age.”

London Times

“I’ve never felt so free, so inspired, to simply be me, and love as I am”.

– Retreat Participant

“Your energy and insights are magnetic…

Ever since finding you only a short month to two months ago, your energy has infected me in the best way. It has forced me to look into myself more deeply than I ever have.” – Community Member

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