HOLY F*CK: RELATIONSHIPS AS A PATH TO ENLIGHTENMENT

In her latest Holy F*ck column, Alexandra Roxo finds herself on the path to enlightenment with relationships coach Perri Gorman… Read more HERE.

"The most glorious moments of love and bliss I hav

"The most glorious moments of love and bliss I have experienced in this life have happened when I let go..."
A line from my book that I need to tell myself most days.
Let go of attachments. Agendas. Control.
Just be.
Surrender.
Something that my former life as a mermaid reminds me ;) Missing my underwater days united with my true Piscean nature in Tulum...
Happy Friday day of Venus, Freya, Goddess...diving into my heart and offline for a few days after all this mega book love and sharing.
Thank you all so much for all the stories and tags of your book reading! Keep them coming pretty please!
I'll be finding some lakes or rivers or waterfalls to swim in naked this weekend, staring at the stars, laughing with a child, feet on grass, book in hand (not mine but one of the 20 i am currently reading) and breathing the night air....mmm xxx
ps. thank you @papayaplayaproject tulum from holding me during my book launch week with socially distanced breathwork, outdoor concerts, tea ceremony, qi gong, yoga, intimacy workhop, dance class, amazing food and drinks, pools I swam naked in, mosquitoes that ate me alive...what a magical time I am still landing from, feeling deeply after these quarantine months...x

She has done her work,⁣⁣⁣ and keeps doing it

She has done her work,⁣⁣⁣
and keeps doing it,⁣⁣⁣
and it’s hard work!⁣⁣⁣
But she does it so she knows even in the darkest of storms,⁣⁣⁣
how to find her way home to her heart,⁣⁣⁣
Her soul,⁣⁣⁣
Her wholeness.⁣⁣⁣
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She shows you her weaknesses⁣⁣⁣
Her soft spots⁣⁣⁣
And laughs.⁣⁣⁣
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She doesn’t need to put on a facade that she’s okay all the time.⁣⁣⁣
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She isn’t okay,⁣⁣⁣
Or not okay⁣⁣⁣
She just IS.⁣⁣⁣
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She’s been to the depths of her own hells and back again,⁣⁣⁣
She’s loved big and will love more,⁣⁣⁣
She gets food stuck in her teeth,⁣⁣⁣
She cries on the floor,⁣⁣⁣
She laughs loud,⁣⁣⁣
And just⁣⁣⁣
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whatever⁣⁣⁣
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IS.⁣⁣⁣
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She has nothing to be afraid of anymore.⁣⁣⁣
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BUT if fear gets a hold of her when her awareness has slipped away, ⁣⁣
when she’s tired, ⁣⁣
or hormonal, ⁣⁣
or at an edge of growth-⁣⁣⁣
She stares it in the face⁣⁣⁣
She lets it moan, ⁣⁣
cry ⁣⁣
and have a life ⁣⁣
and watches it transform before her eyes, ⁣⁣
as it gets the attention ⁣⁣
and presence ⁣⁣
that it craved⁣.⁣⁣
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As she faces each fear she is granted more height⁣⁣⁣
More breadth⁣⁣⁣
More courage in the world⁣⁣⁣
More presence⁣⁣⁣
More power⁣⁣⁣
More compassion⁣⁣⁣
To do her work,⁣⁣⁣
To share her gifts,⁣⁣⁣
To speak loud,⁣⁣⁣
To shine.⁣⁣⁣
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So she keeps facing the fears⁣⁣⁣
and becoming more and more present,⁣⁣⁣
radiant,⁣⁣⁣
strong.⁣⁣⁣
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And people say: “Oooh you look radiant! Is it the hot yoga? The microderm? The la mére cream?” ⁣⁣
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She smiles and says: “No, just been facing my fears, making love to my own demons until they turn to gold and light me up from the inside.“⁣⁣⁣
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***One of my favorite poems written during book writing- I had to cut this version down to one page to fit in the book at the beginning of Chapter 4, so this is the unedited one shared here for you ****
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• An Incantation to the Whole Wild Fierce Loving Divine Womxn Within You •

“The thing I have learned about f*cking like a g

“The thing I have learned about f*cking like a goddess is there there is no formula, no guarantee, excerpt committing to the present. To loving with an open heart. To feeling. To breathing. To letting every moment be a sacred moment of awakening, versus letting moments pass as mundane and causal, as if I were asleep.⁣⁣
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I choose awake.⁣⁣
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That means showing up so deeply, so alive, and so unattached to outcomes that it can be f*cking scary.⁣⁣
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When you f*ck like a goddess the stakes are high. It can be frightening. You risk looking dumb or not knowing what will happen. But you risk for love. For living. For waking up. You do it, not only for you, but for the planet, the beings who will meet you with your wide-open raw heart and light shining through your eyes. Who will hear your screams and cries protecting the earth, your laughter shuddering through the skies. Who will feel your orgasms like a healing balm on the atmosphere.”⁣⁣
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✨Excerpt from my book F*ck Like A Goddess that I read yesterday to 70 womxn on our @radicalawakenings call- what a glorious gathering!⁣✨
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Thanks to all who came!⁣🙏🏼
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If you haven’t bought the book link in my bio for a bonus guided practice of heart opening 🌹♥️and I may just add my opening empowering transmission from last night- dunno who was speaking through me but she was fiery 💥👹😻🔥☄️stay tuned for a version to music for days when you need a little fiery inspo to live big!!! 🤘🏼👄Photo by @inna.lila in my happy place skin bare to Mama Nature with my dear friend the Rose 🌹

Today I am honored to be featured on the @soundstr

Today I am honored to be featured on the @soundstrue podcast “Insights at the Edge” interviewed by founder Tami Simon.
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Perhaps one of the most potent interviews I have ever done. Very vulnerable. Raw and real.⁣
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Tami has interviewed so many amazing beings and published their books too- from Pema Chodron to Eckhart Tolle to Carolyn Myss to Wim Hoff and so many other visionaries...I am honored to be here amongst them.⁣
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I am simply a womxn with a story that I continue to share, year after year of this wild human existence. ⁣
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In films, photos, articles, posts, creative projects, and now...a book!⁣
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If you’re new here, hello and welcome!⁣
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I am a dreamer, a holder of a vision, a philosopher, an artist of life, and a poet. ⁣
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I tell stories. I take risks. I share my heart. And I mentor others in the same journeys. ⁣
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I have nothing new or original to say. But I offer my visions and dreams and stories and philosophy of living through this human vessel I was gifted, through the heroine’s journey I am living upon and the strange kaleidoscope of this Me that I am with a wide open heart as my offering to the world, which is what makes it new...⁣
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My stories are not mine⁣
So I gift them back out again ⁣
Into the wind⁣
And sea⁣
And IG !!!⁣
And books and podcasts⁣
And poems ⁣
And all the places my Heart can waft onto - enjoy and I hope they set you alight!
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Link in stories to the podcast⁣ x
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Happy Full Moon in Aquarius!⁣
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My moon is in Aquarius and it makes such sense !!⁣
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Big love xxx

To f*ck like a goddess⁣ Is to make love to the e

To f*ck like a goddess⁣
Is to make love to the elements,
The sun
And the moon-
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To walk down the street with hips like earthquakes ⁣
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With laughter like thunder⁣
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With tears like rain ⁣
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To be unafraid to ask your lover to pull the car over because you must make love now ⁣
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To wear a long dress with no panties so you can pee wherever you want⁣
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To hike barefoot ⁣
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To swim naked⁣
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To sound like a wild beast while making love⁣
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To cry like a baby⁣
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To let the pain and sorrow and shame and guilt make love to you⁣
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Crack you open⁣
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Open you⁣
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To f*ck like a goddess is to surrender and stop trying to control your human experience ⁣
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But make love to it⁣
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Dance with it⁣
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Make art with it⁣
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It’s to throw our old standards of what is okay⁣
And not okay⁣
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What is productive⁣
And not productive ⁣
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What is beautiful⁣
And not beautiful ⁣
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It’s to love and accept ⁣
And have fun⁣
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And live each day as if it were your last ⁣
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It’s to growl when you are pissed⁣
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And howl when you are excited ⁣
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To heal yourself⁣
Is to remember your body is sacred⁣
It was made like this⁣
Mother Nature makes no mistakes ⁣
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It is to come home to your s€xuality as perfectly wonderful and normal and expansive and human ⁣
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It is to bring all parts of you that were severed back into loving arms ⁣
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To reclaim your voice ⁣
Is to speak for all the times you didn’t⁣
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All the laughter you didn’t laugh⁣
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All the tears you held in⁣
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All the orgasmic bliss you tried to make sound civilized and s€xy ⁣
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It’s to speak up ⁣
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To have opinions⁣
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Ideas⁣
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That exist outside the conditioning⁣
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The boxes⁣
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The status quo ⁣
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To stand in your power is to not believe you are small⁣
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Or not enough ⁣
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Or not brilliant ⁣
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Or not worthy⁣
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Or not capable⁣
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It’s to stand up for what you believe in ⁣
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Fight for the earth⁣
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For justice ⁣
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Wake up⁣
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And invite others in too
Hope when you read my book you define those things for yourself- find nuggets of gold and aha’s! Pls keep sharing w me- happy almost full moon ✨🌿🍃
Photo by cosmic brother @vikain 🍄

Thank you @instylemagazine for this amazing interv

Thank you @instylemagazine for this amazing interview about my book and my mission!
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My heart is melting cracked open reading this. I hope the book finds its way into the hands of thousands more womxn on the path to loving their bodies / seeing themselves as divine / having mind blowing soul blasting orgasms and having the courage to take risks / make a splash and live a legendary life regardless of the circumstances and cards you’ve been dealt. If this book helps in even the tiniest way I am happy.
For all of us that spent years internally shaming ourselves and our bodies and s€xual desires or voices- we are truly changing this world by healing ourselves and sharing our hearts and voices with the world.
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And we know there’s still healing to be done- i hope we can all find the courage to rise and share and love and rage and bring this world into more collective wellness and dance and play while we do it! ⁣
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Thank you @instylemagazine for sharing this message with the world. Thank you also to my publisher @soundstrue / the amazing @jaspre / and my agent Marilyn and editor Diana. Link in stories to read. Thank you again for all your support and I can’t wait to hear what this book has lit in you as you read 💥♥️💥